पोलिसांचा ‘जीवनरंग’ बदलतोय! -प्राजक्ता कदम

पोलिसांचा ‘जीवनरंग’ बदलतोय!
प्राजक्ता कदम

शनिवार, २८ मार्च २००९

मुंबईवर २६/११ रोजी झालेल्या दहशतवादी हल्ल्यामुळे पोलिसांच्या समस्या आणि त्यांचे आयुष्य सर्वासमोर आले आणि अनेक संस्थां त्यांच्या समस्या सोडविण्यासाठी सरसावल्या. आजघडीला अनेक जण आपापल्या परीने त्यांच्या समस्या सोडविण्याचा प्रयत्न करीत आहेत. मात्र ‘जीवनरंग’ ही स्वयंसेवी संस्था त्यात उजवी ठरली आहे. दक्षिण विभागाचे अप्पर पोलीस आयुक्त डॉ. के. व्यंकटेशन यांच्या नेतृत्त्वाखाली सध्या या संस्थेतर्फे १० दिवसांची कार्यशाळा घेण्यात येत असून त्यात पोलिसांना त्यांची जीवनशैली बदलण्याबरोबरच कुटुंब, नातेवाईक आणि इतर समाजाशी कसे ऋणानुबंध जुळवावेत, आरोग्याची काळजी कशी घ्यावी, सकारात्मक दृष्टीकोनासाठी काय करावे आणि विशेष म्हणजे तुटपुंज्या पगारातूनही विविध प्रकारे गुंतवणूक करून भविष्य सुरक्षित कसे करता येईल, याविषयीचे मार्गदर्शन करण्यात येत आहे. याद्वारे पोलिसांच्या आयुष्याची पुनर्बाधणी करण्यात येत आहे. पोलिसांकडूनही त्याला उत्स्फूर्तपणे प्रतिसाद मिळत आहे.

नागपाडा येथील कार्यालयात सकाळी १०.३० ते सायंकाळी ५ या वेळेत पोलिसांच्या आयुष्याच्या आणि जीवनमानाच्या पुनर्बाधणीची कार्यशाळा घेण्यात येते. दक्षिण विभागात एकूण १७ पोलीस ठाण्यांचा समावेश असून प्रत्येक पोलीस ठाण्यातील एक अधिकारी आणि दोन हवालदार दररोज या कार्यशाळेत सहभागी होतात. डॉ. व्यंकटेशन यांनी तसा आदेशच प्रत्येक पोलीस ठाण्याला दिला आहे.

२६/११ नंतर पोलिसांच्या समस्या प्रकर्षांने समाजापुढे पुढे आल्या. त्यानंतर त्यांना शस्त्रास्त्र प्रशिक्षणासोबतच आरोग्य, मानिसक, स्नेहसंबंध आणि गुंतवणुकविषयीही मार्गदर्शन देण्याची गरज असल्याचे हेरून अतुल राजोळी, स्नेहल गोविलकर, संजय गोविलकर, अरूण सिंग, मिलिंद बने आणि विनोद मिस्त्री या ‘जीवनरंग’च्या चमुने डॉ. व्यंकटेशन यांच्याकडे ‘पोलिसांच्या आयुष्याच्या पुनर्बाधणी’चा प्रस्ताव सादर केला. डॉ. व्यंकटेशन यांनीही वेळ न दवडता त्याला हिरवा कंदील दाखवून कार्यशाळा घेण्याचे आदेश दिले. त्यानंतर ही १० दिवसांची कार्यशाळा आयोजित करण्यात आली. या कार्यशाळेत अतुल राजोळी, स्नेहल गोविलकर, संजय गोविलकर, अरूण सिंग, मिलिंद बने आणि विनोद मिस्त्री यांची पाच सत्रे होतात. ‘जीवनरंग’चा प्रत्येक सदस्य हा त्यांच्या क्षेत्रातील तज्ज्ञ असून केवळ सामाजिक बांधिलकीतून ते ही कार्यशाळा घेत आहेत व त्यासाठी एकही पैसा ते त्यांच्याकडून घेत नाहीत.

कार्यशाळेतील पहिले सत्र हे अुतल राजोळी यांचे असते. ‘माईंड ट्रेनर’ असलेले राजोळी या सत्रात जीवनाशी संबंधित छोटय़ा आणि रोचक कथा सांगून ‘प्रो-अ‍ॅक्टिव्हीट’बद्दल म्हणजेच स्वत:च्या आयुष्याची, वागणुकीची आणि भावनांची जबाबदारी ही त्यांची स्वत:ची जबाबदारी असल्याबद्दल मार्गदर्शन करतात. तसेच त्यांच्या आवाक्यात असलेल्या गोष्टींना प्राधान्य देऊन स्वत:चे आयुष्य सुखी करण्याचा मंत्रही देतात. आहारतज्ज्ञ असलेल्या स्नेहल गोविलकर या कार्यशाळेत सहभागी झालेल्या पोलिसांना आहाराचे आणि त्यांच्या शरीराचे महत्त्व समजावून सांगतात. याशिवाय आहाराचे व्यवस्थापन कसे करावे याचे मार्गदर्गनही करतात. स्वत: पोलीस सेवेत असलेले संजय गोविलकर पोलिसांना शरीराच्या ‘बायोलॉजिक वॉच’ची माहिती देऊन अनियमित डय़ुटी करतानाही निसर्गाने बनविलेले हे ‘बायोलॉजिकल वॉच’ कसे सुरू ठेवावे याबद्दल मार्गदर्शन करतात. पोलीस म्हणजे उद्धट, बोलण्याची शिस्त नाही असे सर्वसामान्यांचे मत असते. नेमका हाच धागा पकडून विनोद मिस्त्री या कार्यशाळेत पोलिसांना त्यांच्याबद्दल समाजमनात-कुटुंबात असलेली त्यांची प्रतिमा ‘मानवी स्नेहसंबंधा’च्या माध्यमातून बदलण्याचा गुरुमंत्र देत आहेत. या कार्यशाळेतील सगळ्यात आवडते आणि महत्त्वाचे सत्र असते ते अरुण सिंह यांचे. अरुण सिंह हे पोलिसांना सुरक्षित, मध्यम सुरक्षित ते असुरिक्षत गुंतवणुकीबाबतचे धडे देत आहेत. तुटपुंज्या वेतनातून भविष्य कसे सुरक्षित करावे याबाबतचा सल्ला आजपर्यंत पोलिसांना कुणीच दिलेला नाही. त्यामुळेच अरुण सिंह यांच्या या सत्राला पोलिसांकडून अधिक पसंती मिळत आहे.

पोलिसांसाठीचे हे मार्गदर्शन केवळ एका दिवसाच्या कार्यशाळेपुरते मर्यादित राहू नये यासाठी ‘जीवनरंग’तर्फे विशेष काळजी घेण्यात येत आहे. त्यामुळेच दिवसभर कार्यशाळेत सहभागी होणाऱ्या पोलिसांच्या चेहऱ्यावर काही तरी नवे गवसल्याचा आनंद दिसू लागला आहे.

Future PaathShala Picture Goal Book

'Future PaathShala Picture Goal Book’

In ‘Future PaathShala’ (www.born2win.in/future_paathshala.html) we make our students to dream, we make them believe that these dreams will come true. Not only this, during ‘Future PaathShala’ our students take strong, committed action towards their dreams. It’s amazing to see the metamorphism of ‘Future PaathShala’ students during the journey of ‘Future PaathShala’. What causes them to take drastic action towards their dreams, is simply they convert their ‘Dreams’ into ‘Goals’! Yes. There is a huge difference between a DREAM and a GOAL.

A DREAM requires effortless sleep…
&
A GOAL requires sleepless efforts.

A Dream is just a wish. A Goal is the strong desire to achieve something. The key is to differentiate between our mere wishes and our strong desires. If you have an enough reason to do something, you will definitely do it. If you have strong purpose to achieve something, no matter what, you will achieve it. If you have powerful desire to accomplish something, you will do anything and make sure that you accomplish it! So what’s the point? To convert your DREAM into a GOAL you need to associate a very strong reason to your DREAM. When you have a strong reason to achieve your DREAM, then it becomes your GOAL. Now, associating strong reason to achieve your goals is not that easy, it is a process.

In ‘Future PaathShala’ we use some advanced tools, such as Visualization, NLP (Neuro Linguistic Programming) and something called ‘Future PaathShala Picture Goal Book’, etc to convert student’s dreams into their goals. In this article, I am going to talk in brief about ‘Future PaathShala Picture Goal Book’.

What is ‘Future PaathShala Picture Goal Book’?

‘Future PaathShala Picture Goal Book’ is a wonderful way by which we can represent our goals in our own innovative way. ‘Future PaathShala Picture Goal Book’ is an anchor that provides an instant motivation and confidence to anyone who has prepared it. Basically, it is a book in which, one represents his or her goals in terms of pictures and words in a systematic yet innovative and inspiring way.

How ‘Future PaathShala Picture Goal Book’ is made?

Preparing ‘Future PaathShala Picture Goal Book’ requires conscious efforts. We need to define our goals first. Our goals can be many and we can set our goals for various aspects of our life such as education, career, health, relationships, social responsibility, learning, enjoyment and so on. Also we need to be very clear about ‘Exactly what we want to achieve’ and ‘How we are going to achieve it’. Once it is clear to us then we can start preparing our ‘Future PaathShala Picture Goal Book’.

In your ‘Future PaathShala Picture Goal Book’ you must mention following things:

1. Pictures of your Goals
2. Definition of your Goals
3. Resources you require to achieve your Goals
4. Role Models
5. Set of Actions
6. Reasons to achieve your Goals

I always tell all my ‘Future Stars’ that, they should make their ‘Future PaathShala Picture Goal Book’ a Masterpiece! This book is ‘The Book of their Life’ then it has to be a Masterpiece. This book is going to give them the motivation, confidence, purpose and a strong desire to help them achieve their goals. I am very proud about the fact that, my students (‘Future Stars’) make their ‘Future PaathShala Picture Goal Books’ really masterpieces of their lives. Here I am taking an opportunity to share snaps of some of the best ‘Future PaathShala Picture Goal Books’ prepared by my students.

1. Miss Shruti Suresh (FYJC, Ruparel College)

2. Miss Neha Singh (SYBCOM, Jhunjhunwala College)

3. Mrs. Madhura

Youth has so much energy, passion and innovation dormant within them; ‘Future PaathShala Picture Goal Book’ provides an excellent excuse letting all those hidden aspects come out! If you have not prepared your ‘Future PaathShala Picture Goal Book’ just start preparing it now. For more details about ‘Future PaathShala’ click on following link: (www.born2win.in/future_paathshala.html)

Please post your feedback about this article by feeding your comments.

Thank you very much!

Keep on ROCKING…

Atul
Born2WIN

LAKSHYAVEDH - A Self-Empowering Training Program

Do you feel that, you posses far more Talent, Intelligence, Capability and Creativity than what you currently are utilizing in your work?

If the answer of above question is YES!

Just read on…

Guru Dronacharya was teaching his students the art of archery. He put a wooden bird as the target and asked his students to aim at the bird. The first disciple was asked to describe what he saw. He said, “I see the trees, the branches, the leaves, the sky, the bird and its eye.”

Guru Dronacharya asked this disciple to wait. Then he asked the great Arjun the same question who was also one of his disciples and Arjuna replied, “I only see the eye of the bird.” Guru Dronacharya said, “Very good. Now shoot.” The arrow went straight and hit the eye of the bird.

Unless we focus, we cannot achieve our goal. It is hard to focus and concentrate our full potential, but it is a skill that can be learned. And the most essential aspect to focus, concentrate and maximize our potential is to have a clear and challenging goal in front of us. In fact, we become truly aware about our own potential is when we have a challenging goal. Everyone wants to achieve success in life, but not necessarily each person knows HOW?

If you always do what you always did,

You will always get what you always got!

‘LAKSHYAVEDH’ – An amazing journey of eleven weeks, which will not only help you to set your goals but also to achieve it! ‘LAKSHYAVEDH’ is a eleven weeks Self-Empowering Training Program based on Intensive Research which helps Professionals, Self-Employed People and Businessmen to achieve extraordinary goal in life they deserve and desire with the help of proven principles and also some functional & attitudinal skills.

‘LAKSHYAVEDH’ Program is divided in to two parts:

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Goal Setting
Goal Achievement Project
Time Management
Call for Change
Focus
Effective Interpersonal Relationships
Effective Presentation Skills
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Learning’s from Sindhutaai Sakpal’s Interview

October 3, 2008

Learning’s from Sindhutaai Sakpal’s Interview
Organized by ‘BARAKHADI Dil Se’
In a program ‘Pravas atta paryantacha’ (‘Journey till now’).

Her Birth date: 14th November 1948
Her Education: 4th standard failed.

Caught in the disastrous storm of unfortunate moments…
Walking on burning coal called life…

Married at the age of nine…
Physically abused by husband and family when she was nine months pregnant…
She delivered a baby girl unconsciously in injured state in the goat shade…
Started begging for living of her daughter and herself…

Later she got involved in social activities…
She started adopting street children…

Founder of nine organizations…
Got 172 awards…
Mother of 1045 orphan children…
182 son in laws and 36 daughter in laws…
Now taking care of her husband…
But not as a wife, but as a mother…

Sindhutaai Sakpal you can call her Maai…

I witnessed the experience shared by this unbelievable woman today. She is Maai…

‘BARAKHADI Dil Se’ had organized a social event only for Maai. I am so proud about the fact that I am also a part of ‘BARAKHADI Dil Se.’

Event was purely organized to know Maai. To make people understand true meaning of life by listening to her dramatic life experience. To help Maai’s foundations by provoking people to do charity.

All I can say is, I don’t have words to express my feelings. It was unbelievable. She came. She spoke. She made approximately thousand people sitting in front of her, emotionally chocked. Eventually, Maai won our hearts.

I had the privilege to have the best view in the auditorium because I was handling the technical department. I was sitting in the sound box, exactly in front of the stage.

Telling her story with my words is simply her insult, as I am not that good in writing and I am too small compared to her. But while the interview was going on, I took some quick notes of insights, which I got from her life experiences. I would like to share those with people who read my blog.

1. Learn from life. Life is always teaching you something, try to understand, what life wants to make you learn. Learn it and go ahead in life. Life is the best institution in the world. There is no theory only particle. Isn’t it great?

2. Never forget favors done to you by anyone including nature. Always try to pay them back whenever the people who helped you in your tough times, whenever they are in need.

3. Face challenging situations bravely. Let challenges know that you are challenging person. Challenges come in life to test you. Don’t succumb to its pressure. In fact these are the opportunities to prove yourself. So be brave and face them confidently. Boldness has magic, power and genius in it. Be bindaast, confident and courageous.

4. Laugh at your troubles. In the testing times you, instead of getting worried and giving in to destructive emotions, just make fun of it and enjoy it. Do not ever be bothered by the troubles. If you are feeling negative, that means you are reacting. Instead, you have to be proactive and be in control of your mental state.

5. Trust the god he is always there with you. He is watching you. He is taking care of you. He knows, what is good and what is bad for you.

6. Never compromise with your values and the purpose of your work.

7. Inner beauty and hygiene is more important than outer.

8. If some task is looking impossible. Think of bold, strange and unique ideas, to get your work done. And just go for it.

9. Forgive all the people; including those who give you tough times because, those tough times would actually help you to shape your life.

Soon I will be posting documentary made by BARAKHADI DIL SE on her life. Also if you want to see the whole interview of this great woman, you can buy the VCD of the program. Please contact, Ulhas on 98210 33736.

Compromise and Confidence

29th September 2008

Today, one of my Future PaathShala students (I call them Future Stars) called me, when I asked her that how is she? She answered, “I am not fine, Atul.” (Huh.. how she can answer like that? After all she is a Future Star!) I asked her about the reason of not being well. She started to tell me the story…

Basically, she is a BE and works for a well-known Indian IT company. One year back she got the job in this company, as a fresher. However, she was always victim of being ill-treated by one of her senior colleague. She always used to feel that why she(her senior colleague) behaves with only her in this way. But there was no other option in front of her rather than respecting her and doing what she can do, related to her work. She was actually waiting for confirmation after one year and a salary hike. She did not get confirmation though she completed her one year satisfactorily due to her senior never appreciated her work. She was very frustrated due to this but I advised her to be clam and concentrate on the work.

Now, finally after one year and some more months she got confirmation letter and a salary hike. But a salary hike, which was much lower than what she expected. Due to this she was totally broken and called me. ‘Atul, I just want to commit suicide!” she shouted. The first thought that came to my mind was, ‘What the hell!’. For no reason people find reason to commit suicide. But then I thought, it must be very important to her, and she might have faced lot of trouble during last one year and so. “Calm down”, I said.

She just started telling me what things she did to do her best in her job. And at the end, what she is getting? Just a confirmation letter and a tiny hike in her salary? That reminded me, two of my other friends, who were also working for MNC for more than a year, and absolutely not satisfied with their growth, and especially with their seniors. I was trying to convince her that this is not the end of everything.

“I am fed up of doing all this, I am fed compromising with my desires, I just want result now! I just want god damn final result.” She was furious. I told her to have patience, and she will get the final result one day.
Again she shouted, “No, I want the final result right now!”
“Well” I said, “and what you want as your final result?” I was really curious to now this answer.
“I want my monthly income to be doubled right now!” she said quiet confidently.

“Oh” I was shocked as I thought she is over optimistic about herself. “You think you deserve this amount as your salary with your current capability?”
“Yes”, she affirmed.
“Do you think your company will offer this package right now?”
“No”, she said, as it was too obvious.
“Do you think that any other company will pay you this much amount, with your current ability and experience?” I knew I was making her think now.
“Ya, why not?” may be she asked this to herself.
“Then why don’t you leave this job and find the job which will pay you what you deserve?” my question was straightforward.
“Do you really feel that I should leave this job?” she asked me quiet skeptically.
“Yes. Only if you want your final result to happen right now!” I delivered a googly to her.
“But I am getting to work on very good project here.. I am not sure weather I will get same kind of project anywhere else?” now a confident young lady sounding confused.
“See, you are changing your final result now. Tell me what exactly you want? You want double salary or you want to work on a very good project?”
“I want both!” she again sounded like, she knows what she exactly wants.
“Ok then, go and find out a job that can fill both the criteria…”
“ummm…”
“You said some time ago that you are absolutely fed of compromising… right?”
“Yesss”
“Then by doing a job which is not fulfilling your expectations, don’t you feel that you are compromising again?”
“Hmm… you are right.” She was thinking.
“Never compromise with your standard then, just start hunting for a new job… no matter if you sit at home for three, four, five or six months, if you believe that you are capable of earning this much money, with your current profile… just go for it!” I made her to think again.
“But don’t you think sitting at home and doing nothing is insensible?” she doubted my opinion.
“Absolutely not, that means you don’t believe yourself and you are already ready to make a compromise and live your life below the standard you deserve. If you really believe that you’re capable of getting your outcome right now, why don’t you just go for it?” I made her believe in herself.
“Yes Atul, you are right. I think I had lack of belief in me. But now I promise you, within next two months I will call you and give you the good news that I am doing job having doubled salary of what I am drawing now!” her voice was full of confidence.
“Superb… that’s really great.” I encouraged her.
“Thank you very much, Atul. Bye.” And she disconnected the line.